I made a simple chat room with sockets.io, how do I prevent XSS attacks?

as the title says I made a simple chat room with sockets.io, the only problem is I have no xss protection and my buddies keep putting infinite loops as usernames, so you can imagine how trolly this is getting :P. This is my app.js

/**
 * Module dependencies.
 */

var express = require('express')
  , routes = require('./routes')
  , user = require('./routes/user')
  , http = require('http')
  , path = require('path');

var app = express();

// all environments
app.set('port', process.env.PORT || 3000);
app.set('views', __dirname + '/views');
app.set('view engine', 'jade');
app.use(express.favicon());
app.use(express.logger('dev'));
app.use(express.bodyParser());
app.use(express.methodOverride());
app.use(app.router);
app.use(express.static(path.join(__dirname, 'public')));

// development only
if ('development' == app.get('env')) {
  app.use(express.errorHandler());
}

app.get('/', routes.index);
app.get('/users', user.list);

var server = http.createServer(app).listen(app.get('port'), function(){
  console.log('Express server listening on port ' + app.get('port'));
});
var io  = require('socket.io').listen(server);

var usernames = {};

io.sockets.on('connection', function (socket) {
  // When the client emits 'sendchat' this listens and  executes
  socket.on('sendchat', function(data) {
    io.sockets.emit('updatechat', socket.username, data);
  });

  // When the client emites 'adduser' this listens and executes
  socket.on('adduser', function(username) {
    // Store the username in the socket session for this client
    socket.username = username;
    // add the client's username to the global list
    usernames[username] = username;
    // echo to the client they've connected
    socket.emit('updatechat', 'SERVER', 'you have connected');
    // echo globally (all clients) that a person has connected
    socket.broadcast.emit('updatechat', 'SERVER', username + ' has connected');
    // update the list of users in chat, client-side
    io.sockets.emit('updateusers', usernames);
  });

  socket.on('disconnect', function() {
    // remove the username from global usernames list
    delete usernames[socket.username];
    // update list of users in chat, client-side
    io.sockets.emit('updateusers', usernames);
    // echo globally that the client has left
    socket.broadcast.emit('updatechat', 'SERVER', socket.username + ' has disconnected');
  });
});

How can I sanitize their input to prevent against such things, I tried googling XSS protection prevention, sanitize html input, and other things, but I can't find nothing!

Client Code:

socket.on('updatechat', function(username, data) {
  $('#conversation').append('<b>'+username+ ':</b>' + data.replace() + '<br>');
});

As I mentioned in my comment, don't send that whole message from your server. You are wasting bandwidth and mixing your presentation layer into your server, which will make things a real hassle later on.

Instead of this updatechat emit, try sending something a bit more useful such as userDisconnected with the username. Let the client code display the message that the client has disconnected.

Now for your client, do something like this:

socket.on('userDisconnected', function(username, data) {
  $('#conversation').append(
    $('<span>').addClass('serverMessage').text(username + ' has disconnected'),
  );
});

The key here is that you use $.text() to set the innerText. HTML becomes irrelevant.