cant connect to mysql via sequelize

Hi im trying to connect to my mysql db via sequelize but to no avail..

The connection data i giving is 100% corrent and i can connect to my mysql db via phpmyadmin

here is my code..

var Sequelize = require('sequelize-mysql').sequelize;

var dbConnector = function()
{
    var sequelize = new Sequelize
    (
        'dbname',
        'userName',
        'password',
        {
        host: "ip",
        port: port,
        dialect: 'mysql'
        }
    );

var getCoutries = function ()
{
    sequelize.query("SELECT * FROM `Country`")
        .success
        (
            function(myTableRows)
            {
                console.log(myTableRows)
            }
        )
        .error
        (
            function(error)
            {
                console.log(error); 
                      // geting an error:
                      //[Error: connect ECONNREFUSED]
                      //code: 'ECONNREFUSED',
                      //errno: 'ECONNREFUSED',
                      //syscall: 'connect',
                      //fatal: true }
            }
        )
    ;
    }

    getCoutries();
};